- What happens if we can’t reach an agreement on the finances in mediation?
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Many clients are able to agree terms of a financial settlement in mediation, with supportive and independent legal advice alongside. However, there are some cases where this becomes difficult. When this happens, we will always consider with our clients what alternative processes might be suitable to resolve their issues without requiring their case to be referred to court.
We are committed to supporting our clients find the right process for them and will explain the full range of options available. The discussion about these options will include a consideration of the costs involved and clients would only proceed once costs are established and agreed by all.
- What happens if my ex doesn’t provide full financial disclosure?
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Any financial settlement has to be based on a clear understanding by both clients and their advisors of the family finances. If one person is withholding information about finances, the Wells Process cannot proceed. In the absence of voluntary cooperation with financial disclosure, the only way to force this is by court order. If it becomes necessary to force this by a court process we can sign the necessary court form. It is important that all clients realise the obligation on them to provide complete and honest financial disclosure, regardless of whether the issues are being addressed in mediation, negotiations through solicitors or in a court process.
- What if I feel uncomfortable sitting together with my ex in the room?
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In some situations, we may suggest that it would be appropriate to work with our clients in separate rooms. The joint mediation sessions can progress with the mediator moving between the clients in separate spaces. The same mediation principles apply to shuttle mediation, as to mediations where we work with clients in the same room.
We can also offer the entire Wells Process via online virtual appointments where the clients can remain in separate virtual spaces if deemed appropriate or desired.
- What if we don’t want to participate in all parts of the package?
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We have worked closely with our range of hand-picked professionals to come up with a package which we recognise meets the needs of couples transitioning out of a relationship. However, various parts of the package are optional, although we would discuss this carefully with you at the initial consultation.
- Things are going well with the kids, I am not sure that we need parenting support or to involve the children at this stage?
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We recognise that separation is a chaotic time and there are lots of competing demands. The parenting support element of our package we see as key in supporting a positive co-parenting relationship, however this is optional.
- What if I am keen, but my ex isn’t, can they be made to come along?
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The package is entirely voluntary so no client can be ‘made’ to come along. We are always available to discuss The Wells Process with clients and they can have a no-obligation chat with one of our team to discuss how it works and any questions, or concerns they may have.
- Will there be a court order for the children?
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There is what is called a ‘no order’ principle in England, which means that orders are not made about children unless their parents cannot reach agreement. With us, you work together to come up with a parenting plan, which will focus on the children’s needs and will be unique to each family we work with so, hopefully there will be no need to go to court.
- I am on a low income, can I get Legal Aid to help with the costs of this?
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Unfortunately Legal Aid is not available for our package. If you would like click on the link below then there is further information about Legal Aid and what is available for separating couples.